Ch. 18
That we ought not to be angry with the erring.
If what the philosophers say be true, that all men's
actions proceed from one source; that as they
assent from a persuasion that a thing is so, and
dissent from a persuasion that it is not, and suspend
their judgment from a persuasion that it is uncertain;
so, likewise, they seek a thing from a persuasion that it
is for their advantage, - and it is impossible to esteem
one thing advantageous, and yet desire another; to
esteem one thing a duty, and yet pursue another,
why, after all, should we be angry at the multitude?
"They are thieves and robbers."
What do you mean by thieves and robbers? They
are in an error concerning good and evil. Ought
you, then, to be angry, or rather to pity them? Do
but show them their error, and you will see that they
will amend their faults; but if they do not see the
error, they will rise no higher than their convictions.
"What, then; ought not this thief and this adulterer to be destroyed? "
Nay, call him rather one who errs and is deceived
in things of the greatest importance; blinded, not in
the vision, that distinguishes white from black, but in
the reason, that discerns good from evil. By stating
your question thus, you would see how inhuman it is,
and just as if you should say, "Ought not this blind
or that deaf man to be destroyed?" For, if the
greatest hurt be a deprivation of the most valuable
things, and the most valuable thing to every one be
rectitude of will; when any one is deprived of this,
why, after all, are you angry? You ought not to be
affected, O man ! contrary to nature, by the evil deeds
of another. Pity him rather. Yield not to hatred
and anger; nor say, as many do, " What! shall these
execrable and odious wretches dare to act thus?"
Whence have you so suddenly learnt wisdom?
Why are we thus enraged? Because we make
idols of those things which such people take from us.
Make not an idol of your clothes, and you will not be
enraged with the thief. Make not an idol of a woman's
beauty, and you will not be enraged with an adulterer.
Know, that thief and adulterer cannot reach the things
that are properly your own; but those only which
belong to others, and are not within your power. If
you can give up these things, and look upon them as
not essential, with whom will you any longer be enraged? But while you idolize them, be angry with
yourself, rather than with others. Consider the case:
you have a fine suit of clothes, your neighbor has not.
You have a casement; you want to air them. He
knows not in what the good of man consists, but imagines it is in a fine suit of clothes, just as you
imagine. Shall he not come and take them away?
When you show a cake to greedy people, and are devouring it all yourself, would you not have them snatch
it from you? Do not tempt them. Do not have a
casement. Do not expose your clothes. I, too, the
other day, had an iron lamp burning before my household deities. Hearing a noise at the window, I ran.
I found my lamp was stolen. I considered that he
who took it away did nothing unaccountable. What
then? I said, to-morrow you shall find an earthen
one, for a man loses only what he has. "I have lost
my coat." Ay, because you had a coat. "I have
a pain in my head." You certainly can have none in
your horns. Why, then, are you out of humor? For
loss and pain can be only of such things as are
possessed.
But the tyrant will chain - what? A leg. He will
take away-what? A head. What is there, then,
chat he .can neither chain nor take away? The free
will. Hence the advice of the ancients, - Know
thyself.
"What, then, ought we to do? "
Practise yourself, for Heaven's sake, in little things,
and thence proceed to greater. "I have a pain in
my head." Do not lament. "I have a pain in my
ear." Do not lament. I do not say you may never
groan, but do not groan in spirit; or if your servant
be a long while in bringing you something to bind
your head, do not croak and go into hysterics, and say,
"( Everybody hates me." For who would not hate
such a one?
Relying for the future on these principles, walk
erect and free, not trusting to bulk of body, like a
wrestler; for one should not be unconquerable in the
sense that an ass is.
Who, then, is unconquerable? He whom the inevitable cannot overcome. For such a person I imagine
every trial, and watch him as an athlete in each. He
has been victorious in the first encounter. What will
he do in the second? What, if he should be ex-
hausted by the heat? What, if the field be Olympia?
And so in other trials. If you throw money in his
way, he will despise it. Is he proof against the seductions of women? What if he be tested by fame.
by calumny, by praise, by death? He is able to overcome them all. If he can bear sunshine and storm,
discouragement and fatigue, I pronounce him an athlete unconquered indeed.